Know What You Can Afford
Before you start touring homes, know your real budget. As a rule of thumb, your monthly housing costs — mortgage, taxes, insurance, and HOA — should stay under about 28% of your gross monthly income. But there's more than the monthly payment to plan for:
- Down payment: typically 3-20% of the purchase price depending on your loan type
- Closing costs: usually another 2-5% of the purchase price
- Moving and immediate fixes: set aside 1-2% for the unexpected
- Emergency fund: keep 3-6 months of expenses in reserve for after you close
Getting Pre-Approved
A pre-approval letter is a lender's written estimate of how much they're willing to lend you. It's not the same as being pre-qualified — pre-approval is stronger and shows sellers you're serious. In competitive markets, your offer won't be taken seriously without one.
Expect lenders to ask for:
- Two years of tax returns and W-2s
- Recent pay stubs (last 30 days)
- Two months of bank statements
- Proof of any other assets or income
- Your credit will be pulled — aim for a score of 620+ (higher is better)
We work with lenders we trust and are happy to make introductions.
The Home Search
Once you're pre-approved, we'll sit down and map out what you're looking for. The trick is separating wants from needs:
- Needs: bedrooms, location, commute, school district, budget
- Wants: updated kitchen, garage, yard, pool, style
We'll set up custom alerts so you're the first to know when a matching listing hits the market, and we'll schedule tours around your life — evenings, weekends, whatever works.
Making an Offer
When you find the one, we move fast. We'll pull recent comparable sales, recommend an offer amount, and structure the terms — price, contingencies, closing date, earnest money, and any concessions.
Most purchase contracts include an inspection contingency (gives you a window to have the home professionally inspected and back out or renegotiate if needed), an appraisal contingency (protects you if the home appraises lower than your offer), and a financing contingency(protects you if your loan falls through). We'll walk you through each one and recommend what to keep and what to waive based on the market.
Common First-Time Buyer Mistakes
- Skipping pre-approval.You'll waste time on homes you can't buy.
- Stretching to the top of your budget. Leave room for life — new furniture, unexpected repairs, and the freedom to say yes to dinner out.
- Opening new credit lines during escrow.Don't buy a car or a new couch on credit until after you close. Lenders re-check before funding.
- Waiving inspection to win a bidding war. Sometimes necessary, but understand the risk.
- Falling for the first home you see. It might be the one — but tour a few more to calibrate.
Let's Find Your First Home
Tell us what you're looking for and we'll help you get started — no commitment, no pressure.
